One Swing Philosophy — What Golf Taught Me About Life

My alarm is set for 4:30 a.m. But Ruby and Rich don't seem to care. They often start their day one hour early. 3:30 a.m. I can hear them moving around, asking me to get up. “Mom, let's go for a walk!” And I mumble from under my blanket, “Not yet. It's too early. We still have one more hour.” 😂 Honestly, sometimes I get annoyed. Why do they have to wake me up at 3:30 when my alarm is set for 4:30? It's still dark outside, and I want to sleep for another hour. So I go back to sleep, while Ruby and Rich wait impatiently for their morning walk. But today, I suddenly thought about it differently. They are already ten years old. And thankfully, they have grown old without any serious illness so far. They still eat well. They still sleep well. They still have plenty of energy. And most importantly, they still get excited about going for a morning walk. At 3:30 in the morning. 😂🐶🐶 Suddenly, the thing that sometimes annoys me became something I felt grateful for. That 3:30 a...

This morning, I was sitting in my living room, working on my notebook. I was quietly focused on my computer when I suddenly felt something. I looked up. Ruby was sitting on her bed, watching me. It wasn't unusual. Ruby often watches me like that. But this time, I stopped what I was doing and looked back into her eyes. We just looked at each other for a brief moment. Maybe a minute. Nothing special was happening. She didn't want food. She didn't want to go for a walk. She wasn't asking me for anything. She was simply looking at me. And I looked back at her warmly. Then I turned back to my computer and continued writing. About a minute later, I happened to look over at her again. Ruby's head had slowly fallen down. She was already asleep. I smiled. That's all that happened. But somehow, that one little moment touched me deeply. To be honest, I wasn't always someone who particularly loved dogs. When Ruby and Rich first became part of my l...

Every now and then, I accidentally drop one of my dogs' leashes during our walk. Whenever that happens, Ruby and Rich react in completely different ways. Rich becomes the happiest dog in the world. Dragging his long leash behind him, he takes off like a free spirit, running from one place to another as if he has been waiting for this moment all day. At first, I always worry about two things. First, I hope no one gets scared when they see a large dog running freely. Rich has never shown aggression toward people, but I know not everyone is comfortable around big dogs. Second, I worry that his long leash might get caught on a tree, a fence, or a rock. If that happened, he might not be able to free himself. The funny part is that Rich never really runs away. About twenty or thirty minutes later, he always comes home by himself. During those twenty minutes, I have absolutely no chance of catching him. Even if I hold his favorite treats in my hand, freedom is simply more exci...

For almost ten years, Ruby and Rich had a favorite morning walking trail. It was quiet before sunrise, with very few people around. We walked there almost every day, and it became part of our routine. Two months ago, everything changed. Ruby accidentally fell off a cliff during one of our walks. Thankfully, she recovered, but after that day, I never took that trail again. It wasn't only because it was dangerous. I simply didn't want every walk to begin with anxiety instead of joy. Rich loved that trail even more than Ruby did. Normally, when Rich wants to go somewhere, he lets me know. He gently but firmly pulls the leash toward the direction he wants. Sometimes I follow him. He enjoys exploring new paths. But something surprised me. For the past two months, every morning we have passed the entrance to that trail. Not once has Rich tried to pull me toward it. I don't know whether he remembers what happened that day or whether he simply senses how I feel. Either way, he quie...

For a long time, I thought I was the one taking care of Rich and Ruby. After all, I feed them, take them for walks, clean up after them, and make sure they stay healthy. That sounds like a responsible dog owner, doesn't it? But today, I realized something. Maybe they have been taking care of me all along. This morning, Rich woke me up at 4:30 a.m. and asked to go outside. Usually, I would get up and take him for a walk. But I was unusually tired. "Rich, let's sleep one more hour," I told him. To my surprise, he quietly came back inside and waited. No barking. No repeated requests. Just patience. When I was finally ready, we went out together. As I walked through the cool morning air, I found myself feeling grateful. Not because I was taking care of Rich. Because Rich had taken care of me. Ruby has her own gentle way of communicating. When she wants to go outside, she doesn't make a fuss. She simply opens her eyes, looks at me, and slowly wags her tail while lying ...